Lifestyle not Religion

Best believe me when I tell you I’ve been struggling to write this post since January, the procrastination has been real. I got around to writing it this morning, but it didn’t get saved and I lost it. Yayy! On a serious note, it’s taken me this long to write because gathering my thoughts has been a struggle. I’m praying this post comes together in the end and I get my message across to you perfectly.

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In my last post, I talked about Shows you shouldn’t bother watching. In this post however, I’ll be talking about people that annoy me, no hate cause love ti take over you know, just things I’ll prefer people not do. I get annoyed by religious people, you know those people who follow religious rules and condemn those who don’t. Since I’m christian, I can only speak from the christian perspective but I hope everyone can relate. If you know the bible, you know it says that “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” Romans 3:23.

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Shows you shouldn’t bother watching

Any friend of mine knows I like everything. Hence, why I spend a lot of time recommending good shows to you guys like in this POST . For me to say I hate or wouldn’t watch a show, that show must be really bad. The following shows have made it to my ‘don’t watch’ list and here’s why…..

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What’s in your mental script?- By Jess


Hey everyone; I’m Jess, a writer (it’s just a hobby), and a friend of Oyinlola. I love food (just had to say that! lol), and I enjoy sharing my experiences, thoughts, and opinions with others. This is my first blog entry, and honestly, I’m nervous and excited (insert “lady in the red dress emoji”). Anyways, I hope you guys enjoy reading this.

What’s in your mental script?

You might ask yourself, “what is a mental script?,” or you may be wondering, “What is my mental script?.”

Your mental script is what you say about yourself when you talk to yourself.

It is what defines your evaluation of your own capabilities and worth.

It is how you view yourself, and what you think about yourself.

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Must See Movies at the moment!

Hello beautiful people, guess who’s on spring break? You guessed right if you said me! It’s time to be lazy, explore, catch up on shows, and watch some movies. Speaking of movies, I thought I’ll share movies I’ve watched with you guys this year. I’m not exaggerating when I say you have to go watch these movies, they are must sees (not sure if this is even a word). I’ve been excited for 2017 because so many promising movies are lined up.

This is the website where I watch all my movies, you’re welcome ;).



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Let’s Chat- My husband must be rich


Welcome to another ‘Let’s chat’ series guys! Quick question: Do you watch BKChatLDN on youtube? If you do, and you’ve seen the latest episode, it was about the importance of stable finances in a relationship/marriage. We all know love is not enough to make relationships work, at least I hope you do. So, today I want to hear your opinions (both guys and girls). Ladies, would you marry a man who is not rich and doesn’t have the potential to be? Do your financial expectations differ with regards to the man’s age? Guys, would you marry a woman richer than you? Would you be comfortable not being the bread winner of your home?  Any unasked questions can be answered too, feel free to say whatever is on your mind.

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How to be Anti-Acne 101

Gather round girls, it’s time for the truth. I know we all want flawless faces, you know the Instagram type of face, with no blackheads, acne, and even scarring. We’ve all watched gazillion youtube videos titled ‘5 ways to get rid of Acne, blah blah…’. I was a victim of this for such a long time, I became a product junkie, buying everything my favorite Youtubers recommended. Some worked, others did not. Some worked for weeks, then they stopped. During this naive period , I realized some truths that I’m sharing today. Basically what beauty gurus won’t tell you.

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